The day i decided to get married.... (fuhh berpeluh2 buat karangan omputih ni, siap seratus juta kali padam tulis padam tulis, dengan harapan reader feeling2 sikit lah ye :P)
I wasn't ready but i married him because of Him, he has nothing to offer but it's the matter of hereafter...
"Abang tak mampu bagi kemewahan dunia, tapi kemewahan akhirat, insyallah" and I said; that's what I really want in this life...
It's really beautiful and magical of His arrangement in uniting us..
He came from same village as I do (it's just like 500m distance from our parents' house), we went to same primary school (he's a year elder), but we were never friends before, he has his own circle of friends and so did I.. Believe it or not, i don't have any memories about him but as what he told me, he had a crush on me when we were young, I never showed interest to him while some of my girl friends did (well maybe because at that time I was busy looking at other guys hahahah) and turned out it was a challenge to him to get to know me better. We were born on same month, month of July, so we both Cancerian :D
Somewhere around January 2011, we were being connected through a friend, and not long after that fate led us to marriage and now we're happy a husband-wife with one kid, A&W Jr
It was a co-incident, really as he offered hands to help me out in moving things from old house at Bangsar to Seri Kembangan. Well I could see his effort in trying to get to know me better but I acted "cold" as well I must say I don't really have interest in him.. He's not my type of guy (jangan marah abang) and some more I respected him as a brother. Then one day he asked me and my friend to accompany him & his mom to Lumut (his sister's house). My friend refused and I agreed but I couldn't tell you why I did that! It's like, I was just following the flow..
It was a quick "introduction" session, he brought me for a weekend trip to his sister's house at Lumut altogether with his mom and out of sudden his mom said "ni kira jadi lah no?".. Believe it or not, all I could do was just smiling (tersipu2 malu), didn't see it coming! Elder people said "tersipu2 malu tanda setuju", so it was a YES to his mom & family :D
I didnt know it was that that quick, we had a heart-to heart conversation that night and in just a second we found that chemistry.
Initially, he requested me to accompany him & his mom to Lumut, with no intention for an introduction session with his family or something. I told my sister about this and she said "anggap macam jumpa jiran2 kampung la". And at that time I respected him a brother, not more than that.
A week after that, I went back to hometown during chinese new year, his mom came to my house for a merisik session but then family decided to make it as Engagement Ceremony and the date were set => a month gap to tie the knot.. gulp
The feeling was so pure, strong and beautiful because you know that you accepted him because of Him. After we get confirmation and blessing from parents on both sides then quickly we became lovebirds. The process of getting married went smoothly although we had about a month for the preparation. Luckily both family is not fussy at all, the ceremony was small & simple and my dad, it didnt take long for him to say YES as he had so much respect for my husband's family. And my dad was so relieved that I'm married to people within same region (senang balik kampung). See how Allah planned this for us, came from same village but met at somewhere else far.
So there it is.. when i was 21, i thought i was gonna get married in 23, it didn't happened, then i thought 25, it didn't happen either so i just wait, wait and wait.. thought i was going to be ANDARTU, just prepared myself to become SINGLE & HAPPY but God knows best that 28 is the perfect age ;)